MEN... are they trustable?

Planned to do my homework tonight since my homework has piled up like a mountain before CNY. However, after I sent emails to 2 travel agents, Xue Xue asked me to drop by our self-created group blog - TenOfUs-, saying that there's an urgent article inside.

I haven't dropped by that blog for some time d. Not to say I'm not interested, it's just that I just don't have the time.
Was shocked to see that Chendy broke up with her bf and Xue Xue has some problems with her bf.

For Chendy's case:
For some lame reason, they quarrelled and decided to break up.
After 2 days, she wanted to get back together but it seems that the guy has been quite close with a gal after their breakup.
Maybe the guy started to like this new girl... or maybe he just want to "kek" Chendy.
No one knows for sure.
But for 1 thing everyone knows that this guy is hot among girls especially in college because they think he's handsome (excluding me. Never thought he's very good-looking).
Anywayz, he admitted that he's a flower-hearted guy.
But he's been with Chendy for 2 years!! (though they on and off) This shows that he's still quite loyal... but my other friend seemed to think the other way.
Maybe experiences will change our thinking and opinion... but still, shouldn't we be more optimistic??? Or we're actually just bluffing ourselves?

For Xue Xue's case:
She went to Germany since last month to continue with her studies.
Ever since she went there, her bf didnt really keep in touch with her anymore.
He never reply sms-s and calls.
When he answered he always answered in a cold way.
Did he do that on purpose to let her know about his intention to break up?
Or he's just busy?
Once, I was like him... that was when I was still in high school.
But now after so many years, I've grown up.
I know that, everyone in a relationship should be responsible with every single thing they do or say.

If problem occurs, we should face and settle it. We should NOT avoid it.

If we feel that the other party is not suitable for us, we should talk things out face to face... leaving no misunderstandings behind. We should NEVER just leave things there unsettledwithout any word, because relationship is not a 1 man show, it is a PAIR show.

If we agree to start a relationship, we should have the responsibility to take good care of it.

I just don't understand why there are people willing to start a relationship but in the end put their gf/bf aside by giving lame excuse like: I need to take care of my family. Studies is important to me.

If you think you cannot cope with what you are facing now, you shouldn't have started a relationship!!!!!
LOL...... because of this kind of ppl, many ppl are suffering because of them.

Men... has shown many negative sides of themselves to me.
Flower-hearted, mouth full of lies, irresponsible, changed heart and loved my friends instead...
They might not be my bf, but what they did will influence my point of view towards guys.
I don't deny there are still good guys around, but out of 10 guys, how many of them are truly good?
Excluding my close friends.... I really don't know how many are good.
I don't care how many are bad, I just hate it when they hurt my friends.
Men..... are they trustable?
I don't know and I hope he won't be like those guys I've met.
I've put all my faith and trust in him and I hope.... I really hope, he won't fall in love with another girl.
The pain... is really unbearable.

I hope that my friends will eventually stand up and be happy again. All the best sisters!

-sherril=xuele-