To LOVE or NOT TO LOVE

People, including me always tell everyone, "If you LOVE someone, then just go for it. If you really love that person, nothing's going to get in your way."

This, I think is only applicable to fairy tales. In reality, how many people can really love their admirer, their dream girls/boys, boyfriends/girlfriends with all their heart, without having to worry obstacles along their way which bound to happen???

I would say the answer is JUST A FEW.

Friends around me, always meet with obstacles that can't be avoided. For example, family's objection. The bf's mom doesn't like/aprrove the gf. Reason? Studies and family more important. Or maybe some other weird reasons. Yet, they don't want to break up so in order to continue their realationship, they have no choice but to endure themselves into underground relationship.

But, what century is it now?? Moreover they are no longer school kids. They have grown up and are already college/university students. It's sometimes so meaningless to "tou tou mo mo". I pity them, seriously. They suffer a lot and many of the times, the relationship has no good ending. Have you ever been a victim of this kind of saddening relationship??

Another one that I've seen is because of difference of religion. Seriously, this is something that's really... how to say? WASTED.

你明明很爱他，但是却不可以爱。

Firstly, parents will definitely object the realtionship if they're really into their religion. Some youngsters are willing to convert to another religion but as you know, parents DON'T encourage. Some even want them to end the relationship. It should be a happy ending relationship, but because of this reason, they have to be separated.....

How many people really get to love someone who loves them as well???

It's not easy to find someone that you love who loves you in return. The chances are soooo tiny yet when you have found, these problems will step in your way, signalling you to end the relationship.....

Have you ever encountered these kind of problems?? Or anything similar? Friends sometimes tell me about their sad stories, but I can't console them a lot because I myself haven't been into this kind of situation. Any help out there?

Before ending this post, I would like to wish all couples, people who have fallen in love or anyone who has secret admirers all the best. May LOVE be around you all the time. Still the same words: LOVE NEEDS COURAGE

Peace and Love,
-sherril=xuele-