Stubborn? True to Myself?

After talking to one of my best friend this morning, I felt slightly better. Have known my friend for 13 years and have been close to him since we were in Form 3... Guess he's still 1 of the them who know me very very well...

All this while, I've been following my own principles though I know, I've actually put aside some because my thinking has changed slightly. However, to some people, what I'm doing or what I've done is not favorable/might hurt their feelings...

I truly understand that we would never want to hurt people who we love and care the most. Should we change our behavior/attitude just because we want to satisfy/make them happy? Well, if you would ask me this question when I was still in my secondary years, I would definitely have answered "NO". Somehow, as I grow up, my thinking has changed. Of course, those bad behaviors and attitudes should be changed. But what about those that we feel that are ok or normal?? Guess this is the perspective problem.. everyone views things differently. At this point, sometimes compromising can't be useful at all.... Those who experienced this kind of feeling will surely understand.

I'm not grumbling or not willing to change myself...but I feel that that's ME... MYSELF!! Undeniably, I've actually changed a lot throughout this 1 n a half years... been changing without realizing myself and I'm actually stunned. However, I can't change every part of me, can I? Because those parts actually make up who am I... So confused right now.. Am I being stubborn? Or I just want to be who am I?

-sherril=xuele-